Monday, November 15, 2010

for the moments and the joy


On November 9th the NWTRC had their Denim to Diamonds dinner auction, which is a major source of funding for the program. I unfortunately was not able not be there for the dinner and auction part, but I did help with the set-up. This below was a speech given by one of the parents of a wonderful young women we work at the auction, and I thought I'd share it:

MADISON’S EXPERIENCE WITH NWTRC 
As told by her dad, Kaler Crane 
at Denim to Diamonds, November 6, 2010 
  
MADISON CRANE IS AN 18 YEAR OLD YOUNG LADY WHO LIVES IN A 
LOVING HOME WITH HER MOTHER, FATHER AND TWO BROTHERS. 
SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A BIG PART OF HER FAMILY, 
PARTICIPATING IN ALL HER FAMILY EVENTS. SHARING THE GOOD 
AND THE BAD TIMES THAT EVERY FAMILY SHARES. 
MADISON HAS WATCHED WHILE HER BROTHERS HAVE 
PARTICIPATED IN THEIR CHOSEN ACTIVITIES.  GOING TO HER 
YOUNGER BROTHERS’ FOOTBALL GAMES, BY RIDING ALONG TO 
PICK UP HER OLDER BROTHER FROM THEATRICAL REHEARSALS 
AND PERFORMANCES…. HOURS OF HER LIFE HAVE BEEN SPENT 
JUST TO HELP MAKING THESE ACTIVITIES POSSIBLE FOR THE 
ONES SHE LOVES THE MOST. 
NEVER COMPLAINING, NEVER RESISTING, BUT ALWAYS ON THE 
SIDELINE. 
MADISON HAS NEVER BEEN INVITED TO A FRIENDS HOUSE AFTER 
SCHOOL, HAS NEVER BEEN INVITED TO A BIRTHDAY PARTY, A 
SLEEP OVER OR A DANCE.  SHE HAS NEVER HAD A SPECIAL 
FRIEND THAT SHE COULD BE CLOSE TO AND SHARE WITH.  
MADISON HAS NEVER HAD THE SPECIAL MOMENTS THAT SHE CAN 
CHERISH AS HERS, JUST HERS. THE MOMENTS THAT MAKE HER 
FEEL THAT THESE ARE HER MEMORIES, HER JOY. 
THAT HAS ALL CHANGED. 
WITH WHAT HER PARENTS THOUGHT WOULD BE A PHYSICAL 
BENEFIT, A STRAIGHTENING OF THE BODY, A DEXTERITY 
ENHANCEMENT THERAPY, A DEVELOPMENTAL EXERCISE BECAME 
SOMETHING SO VERY MUCH MORE. 
IT BECAME MADISON’S MOMENTS. 
OF COURSE ALL THE PHYSICAL BENEFIT WAS THERE, ALL THE 
CONFIDENCE BUILDING WAS THERE, EVERYTHING THAT WAS 
EXPECTED WAS THERE, BUT THERE WERE MOMENTS. 
THE MOMENTS OF HAVING SOMETHING SPECIAL THAT WAS JUST 
HERS. MOMENTS OF JOY, MOMENTS OF HAVING VERY SPECIAL 
FRIENDS, THE MOMENTS OF CONNECTING IN A WAY THAT IS SO 
SPECIAL WITH VERY SPECIAL ANIMALS. MOMENTS THAT WERE ALL 
JUST FOR MADISON. 
I’M SURE WE HAVE HEARD GIVING PEOPLE SAY THAT THEY 
ALWAYS GET SO MUCH MORE BACK THEN WHAT THEY GIVE, AND 
JULIA AND HER STAFF ARE NO EXCEPTION TO THIS. IN OUR CASE, I 
WOULD HAVE TO ADAMANTLY OBJECT. 
I DON’T THINK IT COULD BE POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO SEE THROUGH 
YOUR EYES WHAT WE CAN SEE THROUGH OURS. OF COURSE THE 
SMILES, THE LAUGHTER AND THE RIDING TALL AND PROUD ARE 
THERE FOR ALL TO SEE. BUT FOR US WHO UNDERSTAND THE 
MAGIC IN THE MOMENT, WE SEE SO MUCH MORE. 
WE SEE THE WAY A LIFE IS CHANGED. HOW A REALIZATION OF 
THIS IS A SPECIAL MOMENT FOR A SPECIAL VERY DESERVING 
PERSON. WE SEE OUR CHILD EXPERIENCE JOY. 
DOES THANK YOU SAY ENOUGH?  NO IT CAN’T. BUT WE ARE 
LIMITED TO THE WORDS THAT EXIST, SO TO JULIA, THE BOARD OF 
DIRECTORS, THE SPONSORS, THE RIDING STAFF AND VERY 
IMPORTANTLY THE MAGICAL CREATURES THAT MAKE IT ALL 
POSSIBLE - THE HORSES, ALL WE HAVE IS........ THANK YOU.